Elsewhere I have written at length about what you can do to prepare for growing up – but it’s lengthy.
I have here condensed the preparation to five points.
Preparation does not imply anything will happen. If it does, it will be easier to handle.
- Learn to breathe naturally again, rather than into the upper chest — if you do.
- Separate from thinking; cease thinking that you are thought, thinking.
- Stop pretending you are in control; immediately accept what life delivers.
- Be grateful without limits, for the whole of your life.
- Die to your self; see that you are that which sees the self, and not the self that you see.
- There is no six, obviously, so don’t look for anything further until the above is complete.
There, that’s easy enough to follow, isn’t it?
No?